How to be Amazing

By: Michelle and Ludwig

Everyone wants to be amazing but what does it really mean to be one? According to the book of Ursula James titled Be Amazing, wanting to be amazing is whole encompassing, it is a way of transforming yourself, your relationships, your career, and your life. There are a lot of people who seem to actually know how to deal with anything, anybody and any circumstance. It is a part of their advantage. You can be like this too. You can be amazing in your own simple ways. Just note that first, being amazing is a state of mind. Now, these are the following tips from us on how to kickstart your way to be AMAZING.

First, DEVELOP YOUR STRENGTH.

Confidence is always the starting point to develop your strength. You can start by dreaming, recognizing that you deserve better and in doing so you will allow your unconscious mind to work on deciding what you really want out of life. When you are confident, you are well prepared to do things and to take the consequences of your actions. A confident person is prepared to be wrong, to give first, to ask for help, to take calculated risks, to walk away and to prioritise appropriately.

Second, KNOW WHAT YOU WANT.

You need to answer this question: What do you want specifically? This may be the hardest, but in setting your goal you must remember the AMAZE model.

A-ttainable. Establish a state of mind that it is possible for you to achieve the things you really want.

M-easurable. You can quantify these things in concrete terms.

A-ccurate. Make the image of your goal as specific and precise as possible.

Z-oned. This stands for time zones, because timing is everything. Have a fixed mind for completion.

E-xact. To get the image clear in your mind, use as many of your senses as possible to create it. What it will look like and sound like.

Third, PERSEVERE ON YOUR GOALS. 

Have you ever asked yourself things like, “Am I doing things the right way or am I just wasting my time?” 

Feeling tired of all the dilemmas in life and just want to fade away? Well since you’re here, let us tell you this thing:

Success does not just crawl towards you, you need to chase for it. 

Goals are good but just goals without actions are just wishes. You need to have positive habits that will help you in your progress and these may start with little things like not forgetting to make your bed in the morning, being on time, exercising and many more. 

Habits don't just bring you comfort, they are lifelong investments that sustain your success.

"Success is brought about by a combination of smart habits, a tenacious spirit, and whole lot of luck"

In order to walk through the path of being happy and amazing, learn to persevere. 

Fourth, GET STARTED.

Remind yourself that from now on, you are in control. You are capable of making your own decisions to be successful. Always take the first steps in everything. 

LIFE IS FOR LIVING.

Enjoy the journey and do the best you can to keep your amazing self shining!